Which is deeper

You can't imagine the stories I had to translate in the united nations refugees psychological treatment centers, where patients had to describe how they were tortured, their families severed, their dreams torn apart, the committee would then approve or reject giving them the citizenship..I was there translating instantly what the patient answered and the doctors asked..
I don't know if their pain was deeper than the one who was betrayed by his soul mate or the one who lost what he built through his lifetime in Tsunami or anywhere..
Who deserves to be considered as a refugee, how do they scale it.. i think the only pain they recognize is the physical one, the one they still use against Guantanamo inmates..